Winner!

I’ve never run into a guy who could win at the top level in anything today and didn’t have the right attitude, didn’t give it everything he had, at least while he was doing it; wasn’t prepared and didn’t have the whole program worked out. — Ted Turner Getting prepared, having an attitude of gratitude, … Read more

Fight the good fight…

Other people and things can stop you temporarily. You’re the only one who can do it permanently. — Zig Ziglar I have a quote on my desk by Sir Winston Churchill that reminds me to never give up, never, never, never…  Winning in life is an inside job.  We must be willing to face the … Read more

Change Talk

I recently read a 2009 study on Motivational Interviewing.  Motivational interviewing is a client centered, semi-directive therapeutic process. Motivational interviewing is non-judgmental, non-confrontational and non-adversarial. The study found evidence that “What therapists reflect back, they will hear more of,” and that promoting talk about change promotes change. What does this mean for the medical model … Read more

The Badge…

All the world wondered as they witnessed… a people lift themselves from humiliation to the greatest pride. Corazon Aquino You may notice on the side bar of this Blog is a Badge that says “I Have 8,314 Days Sober” the number changes everyday.  We have five different badges available to folks to show some “Pride” … Read more

To love and to be loved…

“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved” – George Sand ♥ When I am teaching I always ask, “who wants to be happy”?  I have never had anyone say, “no not me, I love misery and pain.  I do not want to go there with the happiness”!  Yet once in … Read more

Happy New Year 2011

“We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives… not looking for flaws, but for potential.” ~Ellen Goodman Happy New Year to you, … Read more

The best of you…

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out. John Wooden Living life on life’s terms is essential for peace of mind.  We must recognize that complaining about how things have turned out will result in a poor attitude.  On the flip side making the best of … Read more