To love and to be loved…

“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved” – George Sand ♥ When I am teaching I always ask, “who wants to be happy”?  I have never had anyone say, “no not me, I love misery and pain.  I do not want to go there with the happiness”!  Yet once in … Read more

The choice is ours…

Success is the intentional, pre-meditated use of choice and decision. Unless you choose – with certainty – what it is you want, you accept table scraps by default! Gary Ryan Blair We all have choices in life we can choose where to live, how to live, what to do, how to do it and on…  … Read more

The best of you…

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out. John Wooden Living life on life’s terms is essential for peace of mind.  We must recognize that complaining about how things have turned out will result in a poor attitude.  On the flip side making the best of … Read more

Self Esteem

“If you don’t have confidence, you’ll always find a way not to win.” – Carl Lewis Recently I have been working with some new folks and a pattern has emerged.  I am not sure if it is simply a result of people sharing together in group about their self esteem or something else.  However, without … Read more

RESPONSIBILITY is the key to recovery

Responsibility is the key to recovery. Well right after I say I am going to focus more on self-improvement here I go with a word on treatment and recovery.  I am not really sure when it started to take place but some time after Bill met Bob in the 1930’s the disease concept began to … Read more

A reason

“As long as I have a want, I have a reason for living. Satisfaction is death.” – George Bernard Shaw In the beginning of the recovery process we are content to stay clean and sober.  We must be patient with ourselves and condition.  As we progress through the years we must stay the course and … Read more

Go for it!

“ Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Mark Twain As life evolves and we make changes in our lives to follow our hearts and our dreams to fulfill our purpose there are those … Read more