Happiness leads to joy!

“If one scheme of happiness fails, human nature turns to another; if the first calculation is wrong, we make a second better.” – Jane Austen Recovery is our second attempt to do it right.  What is “IT”?  Simply, “life”.   We have failed the route of partying for happiness and now we must learn a new … Read more

Subconscious

“Trust your hunches. They’re usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level.” – Dr. Joyce Brothers Have you ever had a conversation with someone and you mention a song but you just can not remember the name or the artist?  You look up into the air for the answer and just can … Read more

A Central Purpose…

There is no hope of success for the person who does not have a central purpose, or definite goal at which to aim. — Napoleon Hill Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help others to achieve sobriety.  Alcoholics Anonymous preamble. For each and everyone of us our purpose lies in service to others.  … Read more

The Badge…

All the world wondered as they witnessed… a people lift themselves from humiliation to the greatest pride. Corazon Aquino You may notice on the side bar of this Blog is a Badge that says “I Have 8,314 Days Sober” the number changes everyday.  We have five different badges available to folks to show some “Pride” … Read more

Keep hope alive…

“Hope is not a dream, but a way of making dreams become reality.” – Cardinal Leon Joseph Suenens Yesterday I was speaking with a fellow that is clean and sober now for two years.   He has a similar story he went to prison young and started his education in prison.  He like me, had no … Read more

Stay busy, but focused…

“Become so wrapped up in something that you forget to be afraid.” – Lady Bird Johnson I remember early on in my journey people said depression can’t hit a moving target!  For the most part I believe that is true.  In early recovery we need to keep our feet moving.  Stay busy with positive activities, yet … Read more

Is everybody happy?

“Be happy. It’s one way of being wise.”  – Colette When I read this quote two more came to mind.  Early to bed early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise!  Then the song started to play in my head by Public Image Limited, Johnny Lydon, “Is everybody happy“?  Yesterday I was meeting with … Read more

To love and to be loved…

“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved” – George Sand ♥ When I am teaching I always ask, “who wants to be happy”?  I have never had anyone say, “no not me, I love misery and pain.  I do not want to go there with the happiness”!  Yet once in … Read more

The choice is ours…

Success is the intentional, pre-meditated use of choice and decision. Unless you choose – with certainty – what it is you want, you accept table scraps by default! Gary Ryan Blair We all have choices in life we can choose where to live, how to live, what to do, how to do it and on…  … Read more