To love and to be loved…

“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved” – George Sand ♥ When I am teaching I always ask, “who wants to be happy”?  I have never had anyone say, “no not me, I love misery and pain.  I do not want to go there with the happiness”!  Yet once in … Read more

The choice is ours…

Success is the intentional, pre-meditated use of choice and decision. Unless you choose – with certainty – what it is you want, you accept table scraps by default! Gary Ryan Blair We all have choices in life we can choose where to live, how to live, what to do, how to do it and on…  … Read more

Happy New Year 2011

“We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives… not looking for flaws, but for potential.” ~Ellen Goodman Happy New Year to you, … Read more

The best of you…

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out. John Wooden Living life on life’s terms is essential for peace of mind.  We must recognize that complaining about how things have turned out will result in a poor attitude.  On the flip side making the best of … Read more

A daily reprieve…

“People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily.” – Zig Ziglar ◊ Prayer and meditation has been a key ingredient for my recovery.  Many years ago I added positive affirmations on top of the two.  My affirmations I now have programmed into my smart phone … Read more

It will happen…

“Great changes may not happen right away, but with effort even the difficult may become easy.” – Bill Blackman ♥ The Ninth Step Promises: If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new … Read more