Can You Cry Under Water?

I was recently asked this question!  Can you cry under water?  Got ya thinking huh?   I am going to assume that is exactly what they were trying to do.  Get us to think! In 1956 Earl Nightingale recorded the first and only Gold Record in the spoken word – self improvement industry, “The Strangest Secret”.  … Read more

Take Action; Family and Friends

“One starts an action simply because one must do something.” – T. S. Eliot Alcoholism and addiction are addressed usually after a series of challenges that expand over substantial periods of time.  Typically, the addict takes action after a Significant Emotional Event, a SEE.  Of course family and friends are the first to recognize that … Read more

Victim?

“A strong, successful man is not the victim of his environment. He creates favorable conditions.  His own inherent force and energy compel things to turn out as he desires.”  — Orison Swett Marden Throughout my life I considered myself a victim, a victim of life!  I always had an excuse for everything that went wrong.  … Read more

Thanksgiving in the USA

“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.”  John F. Kennedy For those of you in the States, Happy Thanksgiving.  For all of us of the world as the USA celebrates and gives thanks it is a good time to … Read more

Beyond Comprehension

“In every person who comes near you look for what is good and strong; honor that; try to imitate it, and your faults will drop off like dead leaves when their time comes.” – John Ruskin Put another way, Tony Robbins states that “Success leaves clues”.  It is not about being a chameleon it is simply … Read more

Massive Action!

“A life of reaction is a life of slavery, intellectually and spiritually. One must fight for a life of action, not reaction.” – Rita Mae Brown Not only action but Massive Action!  When it comes to overcoming addiction when all is said and done it comes down to taking Massive Action!  If we think that we … Read more

The Journey

“We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.”   – Carlos Castaneda The Journey of the recovered life requires us to make choices in our lives.  When we make the wrong choices we can either beat ourselves up about it or make the best out of it.  The … Read more

Reap What You Sow!

“Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later.” — Og Mandino Recovery is the game of patience.  Patience with yourself yet having a sense of urgency.   Learning to live one day at a time but having a vision for the future.  Putting in the footwork and setting our lives on solid … Read more