Change is positive

“Above all, don’t fear difficult moments. The best comes from them.” Rita Levi-Montalcini I recently read these statistics in regards to the attitude of change.  There are five attitudes towards change: Early innovators (2.6%), These are the people that run with new ideas. Early adaptors (13.4%), They are influenced by the early innovators but not … Read more

Fear or Responsibility?

“Courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you’re scared.” – Eddie Rickenbacker Fear, unless you have been living under a rock or you are new to recovery you have heard the acronym FEAR, False Evidence Appearing Real!  What a wonderful way to look at it.  However, the truth … Read more

Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly

Sometimes quickly sometimes slowly… Life is full of challenges especially when we are recovering from addiction or alcoholism.  So I am gonna let you in on a secret, shhhhhhh, don’t tell anyone!  We have done some damage, left a wake of damage behind us!  We do not think right when we are using and it … Read more

Fly like a bumblebee

“Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn’t be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn’t know that so it goes on flying anyway.” – Mary Kay Ash I am sure we have all heard the story of the frog and the scorpion.  In this case it bears repeating.  A frog and a scorpion sit by the side of the … Read more

Happy Fathers Day

“Work is about a search for daily meaning as well as daily bread, for recognition as well as cash, for astonishment rather than torpor; in short, for a sort of life, rather than a Monday-to-Friday sort of dying.”   Studs Terkel Happy Fathers Day to all the dads and grand-dads out there.  As a dad I … Read more

Overcoming limitations others put on you

Whether you believe that the Bible is a collection of stories, prophecy, rules or direction, parables by Jesus, or a blow by blow history of the world from beginning to end it does not matter.  King David probably one of the mightiest and greatest rulers of Israel had limitations placed upon him.  We all know … Read more

Victorious

“Never talk defeat. Use words like hope, belief, faith, victory.”  –  Norman Vincent Peale I lived in defeat for many years.  I expected the worst, I thought “the worst is yet to come”.  I believed in the negative motto “shite happens”.  You would hear me say things like, “If it weren’t for bad luck I … Read more

Hope

“When the world says, “Give up,”  Hope whispers, “Try it one more time.” – Anonymous I have faced more challenges than I care to admit.  Most have been brought on by my actions, in-actions and at times poor decisions.  I have two choices when I face adversity, listen to my inner negative voice that says, … Read more

Make it a Positive Day!

“The optimist sees the rose and not its thorns; the pessimist stares at the thorns, oblivious of the rose.” Kahlil Gibran We have all heard the analogy between the cup being half full or half empty.  The way we view life is optional.  We can look at life in a positive light or we can … Read more

Total Responsibility

“The greatest day in your life and mine is when we take total responsibility for our attitudes. That’s the day we truly grow up.”   John Maxwell My attitude everyday will determine my action and results for today.  My actions today will will determine my results for the future until I take full responsibility and change … Read more