Today

“Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you’re going to do now and do it.”  – William C. Durant Living today as if yesterdays mistakes did not occur is essential for getting on in life.  Now of course we need to practice prudence so that we do not repeat the same mess over and … Read more

Rock Steady

“When you have a great and difficult task, something perhaps almost impossible, if you only work a little at a time, every day a little, suddenly the work will finish itself.” – Isak Dinesen It is so easy to get overwhelmed in early recovery.  We attempt to bite off more than we can chew.  However, having … Read more

Spontaneity

“When I do things without any explanation, but just with spontaneity…I can be sure that I am right.”  – Federico Fellini When I am active in my Spiritual life spontaneity is a wonderful thing.  I make great decisions, I behave appropriately, I help people, and I feel better.  Yet spontaneity was my enemy as an addict, … Read more

Success

“Success is the maximum utilization of the ability that you have.”  – Zig Ziglar I am traveling today so it has been tough to write the blog!  Success for any of us in recovery is living daily, sober!  Yet, there is so much more.  Last night I decided to buy myself a new skate board.  … Read more

Rise Above Mediocrity

“We must overcome the notion that we must be regular . . . It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre.” – Uta Hagen Most people that struggle with addiction that I have met have talents that are above average.  They have abilities to excel in all they … Read more

Attitude is Everything

“The last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” — Viktor Frankl The three rules of a healthy attitude, rule number one, Always Be Positive, rule number two, Always Be Positive and rule number three, Always Be Positive!!! I can tell you … Read more

Happiness

“Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you sit down quietly, may alight upon you.” – Nathaniel Hawthorne You deserve happiness, yes you deserve to be happy.  Happiness is an inside job.  Happiness can come from outside sources but true joy that leads to lasting contentment and … Read more

Happy, Joyous and Free

“Far away in the sunshine are my highest inspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty, believe in them and try to follow where they lead.”  – Louisa May Alcott When I first got sober the term “Happy, Joyous and Free” would totally rub me the wrong way.  Here … Read more

Diligence

“What we hope ever to do with ease we may learn first to do with diligence.”  – Samuel Johnson Yesterday we spoke about the decision making process and taking action.  This process can completely free you of the obsession to drink or drug however, diligence and persistence with your daily disciplines is mandatory.  In the beginning … Read more