I’m grateful for…

“As soon as you start to feel differently about what you already have, you will start to attract more of the good things, more of the things you can be grateful for.” — Joe Vitale Gratitude is key to happiness and joy.  Having an attitude of gratitude helps to keep us focused on the main … Read more

Do what we do!

“Once the ‘what’ is decided, the ‘how’ always follows. We must not make the ‘how’ an excuse for not facing and accepting the ‘what.’” – Pearl S. Buck We are blessed to have twelve-step programs and other mutual support recovery groups.  The HOW is outlined for us.  Tony Robbins is quoted as saying, “Success leaves … Read more

Fun, Fun, Fun…

There is, however a vast amount of fun about it all. I suppose some would be shocked at our seeming worldliness and levity. —Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th ed., pg. 16 Having fun in life is key to living a joyous life.  Often the biggest roadblock in the early recovery process is the belief that alcohol or … Read more

Change Talk

I recently read a 2009 study on Motivational Interviewing.  Motivational interviewing is a client centered, semi-directive therapeutic process. Motivational interviewing is non-judgmental, non-confrontational and non-adversarial. The study found evidence that “What therapists reflect back, they will hear more of,” and that promoting talk about change promotes change. What does this mean for the medical model … Read more

The best of you…

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out. John Wooden Living life on life’s terms is essential for peace of mind.  We must recognize that complaining about how things have turned out will result in a poor attitude.  On the flip side making the best of … Read more