Love and to be loved…

“To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides”  – David Viscott We all toss around idealistic points of view when it comes to certain topics like, money, relationships, family, and love.  Talk to a person that is dealing with an issue in one of these areas and give them the old … Read more

The sure fire secret to recovery…

“Everything you are against weakens you. Everything you are for empowers you.”   – Dr. Wayne Dyer The Law of Attraction is the spiritual law that says anything we focus on we attract to us.  Whether it is what we want or not.  What gives the law more power is when we are focused on something with … Read more

Defining Moments

“Listen to your life. All moments are key moments.”  — Frederick Buechner My mom used to say the proof is in the pudding…  We all have defining moments in our lives, the ah-ha’s that hit us often in our challenges and high points in life.  I call the challenges “SEE’s” significant emotional events.  Those are … Read more

How to Stop Screwing Your Life Up! Guaranteed…

No matter where you go, there you are!  Due to the human condition we have the propensity to look for meaning in everything we do.  That includes our screw ups.  Unfortunately when we screw up again, and again and again, our brain searches for the reason and the reason always falls squarely in the wrong … Read more

Anger

Guilt says “I owe you”, Anger says, “You owe me”.  Andy Stanley Through the years I have heard many definitions pop up about anger, it is “fear” is the big one.  Yet through all of the years I have never heard it expressed the way Andy Stanley does in his book, “It Came From Within! … Read more

New and Exciting; Stress…

We are in the process of making some new and exciting changes that will span the next few months.  Change is good but with it comes the potential for increased stress.  The exciting aspect of change is the potential rewards that may follow.  On my end I will keep you all posted on our changes … Read more

The Recovered Life

“Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together.” Vincent van Gogh I am constantly reminding myself and those around me that Life is Goooooood!!!  What I mean by that is life is awesome, life is great.  Not only in our enjoyment of what the recovered life has … Read more

The Challenge; Manipulation

“Challenges are what make life interesting; overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.”  – Joshua Marine Over the course of time in my recovered life I have developed tools that have helped me to live a more content and happy life.  In the beginning of my recovery journey I was told to fake it till you … Read more