Striving for Excellence

“Striving for perfection is the greatest stopper there is.… It’s your excuse to yourself for not doing anything. Instead, strive for excellence, doing your best.” – Sir Laurence Olivier At times I have been guilty of attempting to be a perfectionist, in hindsight I can see it was an excuse for the fear of acting.  I … Read more

Recovery Sabotage

This morning I received an email form a friend that asked me to answer her questions on recovery and sabotage.  I hope you enjoy and implement the answers! What does recovery sabotage mean to you? Recovery Sabotage is the disturbance, interference or undermining of an individuals recovery foundation and ultimately their internal joy.  First of … Read more

Diligence

“What we hope ever to do with ease we may learn first to do with diligence.”  – Samuel Johnson Yesterday we spoke about the decision making process and taking action.  This process can completely free you of the obsession to drink or drug however, diligence and persistence with your daily disciplines is mandatory.  In the beginning … Read more

Daily Reflections

Once is a while I like to post the Daily Reflection.  I thought today’s was and is exceptional!  Dan 🙂 DAILY REFLECTIONS JANUARY 15 AN UNSUSPECTED INNER RESOURCE With few exceptions our members find that they have tapped an unsuspected inner resource which they presently identify with their own conception of a Power greater than … Read more

Never Take Yourself Too Damn Seriously

“The one important thing I have learned over the years is the difference between taking one’s work seriously and taking one’s self seriously. The first is imperative, the second is disastrous.”  – Margot Fonteyn I was out of work and sober for the first time in my life.  It was 1990 and I had lost my … Read more

Is it Possible?

Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe “I Can’t” is dis-empowering.  I lived in “I Can’t” for a very long time.  It was not until I began to live in “I Can” that my life began to change.  But … Read more

Mark Yarrobino

Hello friends of The Last Resort, Yesterday I was honored to be a guest for Mark Yarrobino on his website blog, http://learntochangeyourlife.com/blog/?p=618 Besides the obvious gratitude I have for the honor I would like to point you to his site and blog. Mark has been a presence online for nearly a decade.  His blog is … Read more

Opportunity

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” – Helen Keller In life I believe that true happiness, deep inner joy relies on our Spiritual condition.  In recovery our inner joy and recovery … Read more

The Choice; Respond or React

“The last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”   Viktor Frankl I am re-reading “Man’s Search for Meaning”, by Victor Frankl.  If you are not familiar with Victor Frankl, he was imprisoned by the Nazi’s in World War 2.  He lost his … Read more