The Strangest Secret

We become what we think about.  Earl Nightingale. In 1998 I was 10 years abstinent from drugs and alcohol.  My Spiritual relationship, my family life, my recovery, my career, all seemed from the outside to be clicking!  Yet I continued to have an emptiness inside.  Don’t get me wrong it was not a depression or  … Read more

Vengeance

In July, I was asked by a family to assist them with an injustice that had occurred to their family by a life insurance company (relating to alcoholism and mental health issues).  I will only discuss the basics because the specifics are not the reason for this article.  I accepted an agreement for compensation on … Read more

Mistakes as a Recovered Person

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. – Thomas Edison, 1847-1931. Most of us that have been plagued by addiction have had our share of failure.  Looking at our failures as the direct result of our addiction allows us to write … Read more

The Heart of a Champion

Courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you’re scared.  – Eddie Rickenbacker The message of Real Life Recovery is to show average and ordinary people that they can build a life they are proud of and they can gain independence for themselves and their families.  If we have … Read more

Personal Growth & Jim Rohn

“Of all the things that can have an effect on your future, I believe personal growth is the greatest. We can talk about sales growth, profit growth, asset growth, but all of this probably will not happen without personal growth.”  Jim Rohn Jim Rohn passed away on December 5, 2009 after an 18 month battle … Read more

The Human Spirit

Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Yesterday I was watching television and came across a show that I thought was a TV Bloopers or Candid Camera type of show.  It was in Spanish so I was … Read more

The Difficulty of Winning

Difficulties mastered are opportunities won. — Winston Churchill I often point to the comeback as what really matters.  Of course the persistence and relentless leadership of Winston Churchill in World War 2 is a great example.   Winning in life is not necessarily the goal of life.  Striving to achieve our “Purpose” is the underlying … Read more

Take Action; Family and Friends

“One starts an action simply because one must do something.” – T. S. Eliot Alcoholism and addiction are addressed usually after a series of challenges that expand over substantial periods of time.  Typically, the addict takes action after a Significant Emotional Event, a SEE.  Of course family and friends are the first to recognize that … Read more