Purpose of Life

“I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be honorable, to be compassionate. It is, after all, to matter: to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you lived at all.” – Leo Rosten My friend and mentor Jack Jackson recently had a heart attack and … Read more

In Today!

“Never let yesterday use up too much of today.” — Will Rogers Freedom of the bondage of self for me came in the form of fear of my past.  I carried the burden of shame in my life.  I burned bridges, including friendships, employment, credit, and family.   I lived in fear of everything in my … Read more

Day by Day…

“Start by doing what’s necessary, then do what’s possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” – Francis of Assisi Of course I do not suggest it however, I have heard people in recovery from drug and alcohol addiction say to newcomers to recovery stick around for ninety-days.  Do not drink or drug for that … Read more

Total Responsibility

“The greatest day in your life and mine is when we take total responsibility for our attitudes. That’s the day we truly grow up.”   John Maxwell My attitude everyday will determine my action and results for today.  My actions today will will determine my results for the future until I take full responsibility and change … Read more

You Get What You Give, Tucker…

“Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.” Paul the Apostle   2 Corinthians 9:6 My friend Tucker Hall the co-founder of Volcom, Inc. has a life principle he lives by, “You get what you give”!  Often we get caught up listening to the radio station playing … Read more

If You Think You Can…

“I have learned, as a rule of thumb, never to ask whether you can do something. Say, instead, that you are doing it. Then fasten your seat belt. The most remarkable things follow.” – Julia Cameron The quote that sticks to me to this day is Henry Fords, “Whether you think you can or you think … Read more

Fake it Till You Make It!

“I learn by going where I have to go.”  – Theodore Roethke There was a time that I had to take a “fake till I make it” philosophy!  I had to walk “as if” until I could develop the strategies, skills, faith and most of all positive mental attitude.  I learned that it is easier to … Read more

Desire to Succeed

“The vision that you glorify in your mind, the ideal that you enthrone in your heart this you will build your life by, and this you will become.” – James Lane Allen The late Earl Nightingale a man that changed my life for the better due to the principles he taught stated, “We become what … Read more

Ambiguity

“Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity.” – Gilda Radner Life is ambiguous and filled with contradictions.  Addiction is a huge contradiction, as much as we can predict and see patterns for people that are in throws … Read more